As You Desire ~ Sexy Valentines Day

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There is a lot of pressure around holidays such as Valentine’s Day.  Women have high hopes that their lover is going to treat them to something special – maybe a sexy gift?  Some erotic perfume?  A day spa date?  Our minds go wild.  Men, on the other hand, just hope for SEX.

Am I correct?

We hope for sex too – but we want some romance and sexiness with our sex.  We want to have an excuse to get dressed up (that always makes us feel sexy) and do something out of the ordinary.  If you know your partner well, you will know what something out of the ordinary looks like – please – don’t make this about YOU out of the ordinary – make this about them.  If you both like to plan things – create TWO Valentines so you each get to take charge of surprising each other.

How about something Really Unique?

We will be teaching Intimacy & Sex Magic in the Caribbean – how sexy is THAT?  This will be our 11th year – so Valentines for us is always sexy.  One of the things we enjoy doing on Valentines night is to feed each other dinner.  This is a very sexy Tantra Ritual – where you place each other’s plates in front of the other person – and then you feed, drink, blot lips, etc for each other the entire meal.  You will learn new things about each other no matter how long you’ve been together.  How big of a bite do they want, how do they like their food combined, how often do they want a sip of their beverage?  You will giggle…. a Lot. Most of all you’ll be communicating and aware of each other in new ways.  And when you are through, you will find a new sense of satisfaction level (and probably with half the usual amount of food) from your meal.  You might even decide to make this more a weekly experience.  A great way to connect with the one you love.

What ever you decide… please try something new this year – ramp up your Sexy Time and make Valentines Day 2014 one to remember!



Inancyupclosentimately Yours, Dr. Nancy

Dr. Nancy Sutton Pierce RN,DHS , International Speaker, Health & Intimacy Expert,  and the Founding director of Conscious Living Yoga & Conscious Living Sexuality. You can also find her every Saturday 11a-12noon PT Hosting The Conscious Living Radio Talk Show at KCN$ You can reach Dr. Nancy at with your comment or questions.

As You Desire is proudly sponsored by Body Logic MD; helping both men and women restore their libido and vitality through hormone therapy, fitness and nutrition counseling.

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Dr. Nancy Sutton Pierce is the creator of Conscious Living Yoga & Conscious Living Sexuality Programs. She is an international speaker, intimacy educator, and clinician. Her passions include her husband, family and her work helping others awaken to the joyful passions they long to connect with. She is also the executive producer & creator of The Conscious Living Show, As You Desire Sex & Relationship Blog, and The Sex Host Dr on YouTube.
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