Sexual Soul Residue

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My friend Marlon posted this on FB the other day and since then it’s given me, my husband and many friends some great food for thought and discussion. I didn’t want to lose this so I’m re-posting it here – along with my comments – and hoping to hear your thoughts as well.

“Each time a man connects with a woman sexually and releases his life energy within her, he leaves a part of his information (DNA) in her birth canal. If she doesn’t cleanse herself, his energy remains inside of her. That imprint can often create illusion sexual addiction to the individual.

When someone decides to have multiple partners, it can sometimes send mixed emotional signals within the inside of the body’s vibration system. Women must be careful of different energies or spiritual forces polluting their internal temple. You are a sacred doorway, where life is intended to pass through, respect yourself, use your gifts wisely! Just think about it and ask yourself… Ever wonder why they call it sexual intercourse (INTER-Course)? It’s an internal course that unites man and woman, mind with mind, spirit with spirit, or energy with energy. This is something that a condom can’t protect you against because energy is behind the elements of all flesh.

-Darryl Sutton- There is no such thing as “Casual” Sex or “Friends with Benefits”… No, No, No, I Don’t Think So!!! Intimate activity intricately entwines the energies between two people. Sex creates a powerful exchange of energy between those involved. Through these connections, imprints and debris are left upon the mind, soul and spirit for a long time because they are not easily purged or cleansed. ‘Casual sex’ with multiple partners can intertwine the energies and spirits of a lot of people into your own aura if they are not severed and cleansed. You become joined to every person with whom your partner has slept, as well as all the partners those people had. This type of “soul clutter” can be felt by your partner’s subconscious. Even if they are not completely in tune or aware of the extra-curricular sexual activities, they still are able to sense the subtle disturbances of multiple energies and/or familiar spirits that have entered causing restlessness and inner turmoil. The longer and more intimate the contact with another person, the more powerful the reinforcement and the interaction of the bond becomes, and all the more difficult it is for them to untangle and leave. Soul stains, transference of odors, perceptive connections and even mutually formed habits are now left to burden the psyche long after that relationship has ended.”

My responses were as follows:

Q: To the question posed by a reader – How can you cleanse yourself of these energies?

A: There are many energy clearing techniques taught in the yoga/energy work traditions… However, it’s a beautiful thing to have the merging of these intimate energies with someone special … Even if only for a short while.

Choose your intimate partners carefully and make sure their overall energy is one you’d like to have a part of you long after they’ve departed.

This is where the practice of non-attachment comes in. We are all moving through time – when we connect – for however long- we can fully immerse ourselves into that momentary experience without the expectation of any more. It is then we are FREE to be present – one moment at a time – and live authentically and fully.

Sexuality is a life force – like breathing. When we breath with someone – heart to heart, it connects us on all plains. Sexual time is an even greater connection if we are not careful to understand the ramifications and know the ways in which to keep ourselves protected. A condom protects against many things – but “soul stains” as the author stated are not on that list.

We are imprintable & impressionable beings. We are affected by our experiences. Being conscious & aware of our reactions to each and every experience allows us the opportunity to utilize all for our spiritual growth in some magnificent way.

Thank You Marlon for sharing this…

Intimately Yours, Dr. Nancy

nancyupcloseDr. Nancy Sutton Pierce, RN, DHS, International Speaker, Intimacy & Health Expert, the founding director of Conscious Living Yoga, Conscious Living Sexuality & Exotic Lifestyle Events. You can also find her every Saturday morning, 11a-12noon PT, Hosting her Conscious Living Radio Talk Show here at or download the podcast from iTunes.

Nancy earned her Doctorate Degree in Human Sexuality from the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality in San Francisco.   You can experience a sampling of her Conscious Living Sexuality course on the Kendra On Top Show (Season 4, Episode 12).  You can also find Nancy’s contributions in Cosmopolitan Magazine; on,  DrNancySuttonPierce and

Her favorite topics and specialty areas are Intimacy Communication and Designer Lives/Relationships through her Conscious Living concepts.  Her extensive and eclectic background as a registered nurse, health educator, sex & relationship author, radio talk show host, and yoga therapist serve as a foundational fuel for her passion and expertise as an International speaker and sensuality educator.

In between her global travels sharing her passion for passion, Dr. Nancy can be found enjoying life in Northern California with the love of her life for over 30 years, Dr. Mark Pierce.  Together they have raised three children into adulthood and now bask in what she refers to as “the dessert of parenting”, their three incredible granddaughters.

As You Desire is proudly sponsored by Body Logic MD; helping both men and women restore their libido and vitality through hormone therapy, fitness and nutrition counseling.

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Dr. Nancy Sutton Pierce is the creator of Conscious Living Yoga & Conscious Living Sexuality Programs. She is an international speaker, intimacy educator, and clinician. Her passions include her husband, family and her work helping others awaken to the joyful passions they long to connect with. She is also the executive producer & creator of The Conscious Living Show, As You Desire Sex & Relationship Blog, and The Sex Host Dr on YouTube.
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